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 Trust and Honesty
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This week has certainly been one of my worst weeks at work with accusations and lies. People you would normally trust will even let you down.

Monday morning at 6.45am I had one of the guys come up and said that he heard that I had accused him of faking an injury he had sustained at work.

Monday afternoon at 4pm while I was at a training course a contractor came into the office full of anger and screaming at the office staff. He made a number of accusations including that I was taking bribes from other contractors.

Tuesday morning at 7.15am the union rep pulled me aside and told me that one of the staff had complained that I rigged an interview to get a certain person on.

Tuesday 2.30pm I got upset with someone talking on the internet.

Friday I had to issue a disciplinary letter to a staff member who then got upset and went home.
I really started to struggle with those two words TRUST and HONESTY who could I trust anymore. Even those that are close to me I started to doubt, and within the work force I really started to struggle. When you start to doubt any one it seems to put doubt in your mind about everyone.





Any way the injured worker came back and apologized and said it was a misunderstanding. The bribery accusation was aired at a meeting with the works manager, and again it was someone else that had made those comments and I wasn’t even involved. The matter was even going to be placed in the hands of a government department (Independent Corruption against Crime). Thankfully it was resolved before it got to that stage. The worker that accused me of rigging the interview couldn’t go ny further because we had independent people on the interview panel and the evidence cleared me. He actually came and seen me later and said he was upset that he missed out on the position but has now accepted the decision. The internet person I hope I can trust, we have spoken a couple of times since and I believe I have a better understanding. I really hope that trust is not broken and there will be no secret stuff anymore.



If that trust is broken again I really don’t know what will happen. Maybe I will have to accept what has happened and move on.
TRUST and HONESTY even God has commanded us to obey those words.

~~~~~~Mr Blog
Posted by Mr and Mrs Blog at 8:57 PM - 14 Comments   Add a Comment  
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One thing I hate most is defending myself...you had a rough week!

I need Mr. and Mrs. Blog's birthdays please for a post I am doing...thank you!!
 
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by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Saturday July 29, 2006 @ 12:04 AM




Thanks Lucy we take it on the chin and move on. Life is full of challenges  
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by Mr and Mrs Blog (PM , CC ) on Saturday July 29, 2006 @ 3:38 AM




What a tough week....I to have to deal with the trust and honesty issues at my place of work and I know it cannot be fun at anytime...I hope your weekend is better......Renee'  
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by lover2 (PM , CC ) on Saturday July 29, 2006 @ 11:41 AM




Ouch, I feel you on this one. It's so hard when these bonds are broken...it almost feels like a big gut punch. But like you said, I guess one has to accept them for what they are. We are all imperfect humans making mistakes, trespassing against each other. All we can do is forgive and move on but that doesn't make it easy when your core is shaken. I wish you peace and hope you don't have any more weeks like that for awhile, if ever again.  
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by MaryElizabeth (PM , CC ) on Sunday July 30, 2006 @ 8:50 AM




Sounds like you had a really rough week. I can only hope that things get better for you!  
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by Miss Lou (PM , CC ) on Sunday July 30, 2006 @ 3:50 PM




Thanks Renee I am glad that my name was cleared but it is still a challenge to work with dishonesty and mistrust.  
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by Mr and Mrs Blog (PM , CC ) on Tuesday August 1, 2006 @ 10:03 AM




Thanks MaryElizabeth I hope I dont either but I quess it comes with the position. Thanks for stopping by  
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by Mr and Mrs Blog (PM , CC ) on Tuesday August 1, 2006 @ 10:05 AM




Things have got better at work Miss Lou but other things have got worse but I hope I get through.  
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by Mr and Mrs Blog (PM , CC ) on Tuesday August 1, 2006 @ 10:07 AM




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by Miss Lou (PM , CC ) on Sunday August 6, 2006 @ 11:54 AM




Hello Miss Lou that is really cute  
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by Mr and Mrs Blog (PM , CC ) on Monday August 7, 2006 @ 5:57 AM




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by Miss Lou (PM , CC ) on Monday August 7, 2006 @ 11:37 AM




Good morning Miss Lou there great little icons actually there beautifull  
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by Mr and Mrs Blog (PM , CC ) on Wednesday August 9, 2006 @ 4:20 AM




I hope things have improved since your post. Surely doesn't sound like they could have gotten much worse. I count myself lucky to work in a place where I am left pretty much to my own devices and can go about my work, with only occasional ventures 'up front' (to the offices) to see if I have been up to anything lately.  
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by MrOrnery1851 (PM , CC ) on Sunday August 13, 2006 @ 8:15 PM




Yes Mrornery1851 things are improving daily thanks for stopping by  
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by Mr and Mrs Blog (PM , CC ) on Wednesday August 23, 2006 @ 6:34 AM


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   
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